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This blog is meant to be a place where I can think freely about gender, observe how it works and how it’s constructed in everyday life. It’s more about questions than it is about answers; whatever answers I do happen to post are probably tentative and subject to change. It’s also a personal blog inasmuch as gender is a very personal thing. I don’t mean to rant –too much– about my daily life; but I will post whatever I discover when I carry my explorations into the real world.

What about me? I’m a high school university student, I live in Argentina and I identify as trans, queer and maybe genderqueer; but my identity tends to flow.

I’d love to hear from you! You’re always welcome to leave your thoughts in the comments, but you can also email me at genderkid–at–hotmail–dot–com–dot–ar or through this form:

Note: while comments are public, any messages sent through this form will only be seen by me.

18 Comments leave one →
  1. September 16, 2008 8:21 pm

    I love your blog so far.
    Very deep and thoughtful. Kinda like what i wish mine was. Keep it up my dear.

  2. genderkid permalink
    September 18, 2008 1:45 pm

    Aw, thanks!

  3. ethanhart permalink
    December 5, 2008 10:07 pm

    Hey there…I thought I’d write you back since you found my blog. You can email directly at ethanlane07 (at ) yahoo (dot) com if you’d like.
    Good luck and always be true to yourself!


    email address edited to avoid spam –gk (genderkid)

  4. December 17, 2008 6:56 am

    Hi genderkid!

    I found your blog today and ate it up. I absolutely love it.

    I am also trans and from Argentina, although I don’t live there anymore. It was great to find a blog detailing the experiences of someone back home, albeit significantly younger (I’m 25) and on a different part of the spectrum (I’m genderqueer mtf).

    If you have the time, please drop me a line, I’d love to chat with you about lots of stuff! My email is ascots ***AT*** gmail ((DOT)) com



  5. genderkid permalink*
    December 17, 2008 11:15 am

    Hey! Neat! I always hoped someone from Argentina would find me :-) (why I don’t blog in Spanish yet is a whole blogpost… I should write about that soon).

    Anyway, thanks for the comment; I’ll write you immediately! Same goes for Ethan.

  6. January 2, 2009 10:23 am

    great, honest blog genderkid……thanks for sharing yourself. it makes such a difference to so many. and for you a great access to your true self.

  7. eBomb permalink
    February 9, 2009 2:04 pm

    you are doing awesome work here… i’ve added you to my blogroll if that is all right!

  8. March 8, 2009 1:23 pm

    Hey genderkid,
    do you think you could post up this press release for a conference that I am working on, it is a really great, free opportunity (unfortunately pretty far away from you) but I feel like you may have some readers who are close enough to come…

    Reproductive Rights Activist Opportunity
    April 3 – 5, 2009, Hampshire College, Amherst, MA

    Want to explore the intersection of queer identity, reproductive justice, sexuality and gender? On April 3-5 about 1,000 student and community activists will participate in radical workshops including discussions about class and the role of youth in building a movement for economic justice.

    From Abortion Rights to Social Justice:
    Building the Movement to Reproductive Freedom
    Hosted by The Civil Liberties and Public Policy Program and the
    Population and Development Program at Hampshire College
    April 3– 5

    This comprehensive reproductive rights conference features over 50 workshops encompassing alternatives to prison, climate change, queer and transgender rights, reproductive technologies and anti-war activism. Friday workshops will run from 4 to 6 p.m., Saturday from 9 a.m. to 6:45 p.m. and on Sunday from 9 a.m. to noon.

    Speakers include: Kenyon Farrow, national public education director for Queers for Economic Justice; Miriam Perez, activist and blogger for; Miss Major, organizing director of the Transgender, Gender Variant, Intersex Justice Project.

    Since its formation in 1981, the Civil Liberties and Public Policy Program has trained students and young people as reproductive rights activists. The program emphasizes connections between reproductive rights to concerns such as economic justice, healthcare reform, racial equality and civil liberties, as well as gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender rights. More information can be found online at:

    The Population and Development Program brings a global perspective to the study and investigation of population and environmental issues and challenges traditional views of over-population and immigration as primary causes of environmental degradation, political instability, and poverty. The program also serves as a monitoring resource for educators, students, journalists, activists, opinion leaders, and policy makers in the U.S. and abroad.

    Students available for interviews: Akira Cespedes Perez (787 209 8349). Conference speakers are also available for interviews upon request.

  9. March 11, 2009 10:13 pm

    Soy Uruguaya y ultimamente leyendo blogs como genderfork, empece a interesarme mas por la identidad de genero. Un placer leerte desde tan cerquita, recien empiezo a hacerlo.

    Un saludo.

    • traslúcido permalink*
      March 11, 2009 10:19 pm

      El placer es mío, Anita. Gracias!

  10. StealthKid permalink
    March 24, 2009 11:21 pm


    I’m living in South America, originally from the US though, and I’m stealth, but I’m really looking for information on getting top surgery. I am already on T (got that in US) but I was wondering if there is a way to get T as well in South America. If you can help please email me at preguntaslima at – thanks and awesome blog!!

  11. April 1, 2009 6:12 pm

    Thank you for your kind words. I am enjoying your blog very much and have added a link to it on my own. I look forward to exploring it further.

    feel free to email me directly at eli.vandenberg (at) gmail (dot) com

  12. mirandanyc permalink
    May 24, 2009 3:18 pm

    Hi – love your blog so far. I started a group blog this past January that’s written by and for high school student feminists; nice to see another young person being active and getting heard. I’m posting a link to your blog on mine. Maybe you could do the same?


  13. July 29, 2009 6:04 pm

    I have enjoyed reading this blog and admire the maturity and self-awareness with which you express yourself. Thank you for sharing your testimonies.

  14. marie0000 permalink
    August 16, 2009 2:12 am

    I am new at this, how do I subscribe to your blog?

    • genderkid permalink*
      August 16, 2009 10:21 am

      You can subscribe to the RSS feed, or if you don’t usually do that, you can also get updates through email. Thanks for stopping by!

  15. December 27, 2012 7:56 pm

    I really like your blog, I think you are wonderful at expressing yourself and your emotions. Please keep writing!


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